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Sometimes It's Just Hard

Andrea Lende • May 29, 2021

Mark 14:34-36

Sometimes It’s Just Hard

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Mark 14:34-36

“And He said to them, My soul is exceedingly sad (overwhelmed with grief) so that it almost kills Me! Remain here and keep awake and be watching.”

“And going a little father, He fell on the ground and kept praying that if it were possible the [fatal] hour might pass from Him.”

“And He was saying, Abba, [which means] Father, everything is possible for You. Take away this cup from Me; yet not what I will, but what You [will].”


Jesus was experiencing a most difficult moment.

The moment just before He would be beaten and later killed. 

Our verse says His soul was exceedingly sad.

He was overwhelmed with grief.

There are times we feel this way.

Or at least we think we do.

I know I haven’t experienced exactly what Jesus did because I’m still here and His next few days took Him to His death.

But I have certainly felt overwhelmingly sad before.

So, what did Jesus do during these distressing moments?

He prayed.

He prayed a lot.

Our verse says He kept praying.

What did He pray for?

He prayed for God to deliver Him but most of all that God’s will be done.

When I go through really tough times, it’s hard to pray for God’s will over my own.

I don’t really want to experience the hard parts of life.

I wouldn’t wish them on anyone else and I don’t want them for myself either.

However, they are inevitable.

We may never know or understand why a certain trial came our way here on this earth.

We may feel like we will never recover from it.

And we will no doubt never be the same.

However, the Lord will go through the fire with us.

Our defense is to pray just like Jesus did.

And we can keep praying.

When all seems lost, that’s what we can do.

Just like Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego, The Lord will walk through the fire with us.

He will protect our spirits and keep us His.

Jesus died on the cross to make it so.

He made a way for us to be perfectly His.

No matter what this life brings, we are His for eternity.

We cannot be snatched out of His hand. 

John 10:29 “My Father, Who has given them to Me, is greater and mightier than all [else]; and no one is able to snatch [them] out of the Father’s hand.” 

This is what we can hold onto in the storm.

We are God’s.

We will always be His.

This is His promise.

Today I am grateful the Lord is with me in the storms of life, and grateful He will keep me His for eternity.

May you find you are held safe in God’s mighty hands today and forever.


Daily Prayer:

O Lord, my God, thank You for Your promise to keep me Yours forever. Thank You for holding me in Your hands. Thank You for holding me up during the storms of this life. Thank You for keeping me from being burned in the fires of life. Help me find cool refreshing rest in You today, Lord. Increase my faith. Keep me seeking You even amidst the chaos. Do not let me fall from Your arms, Lord. Lift me high above this world and into Your arms. Keep me Yours, Lord. Thank You for all You do for me and all You are. Help me bless someone this day. Thank You for hearing my prayer.

Answer: I AM with you My child and will hold you up through the storms of your life.
Response: Keep me Yours, Lord, keep me Yours.

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